How much expectation is ok in a friendship? How much is it ok to expect of a friend? I have had friends who have been accused of expecting too much out of each other. Some expect too little and care as little so as to have a relationship little resembling actual friendship. Some believe, ok one of my friends, believe that friendship should be without expectation but that's just a little bit naive and idealistic now isn't it?
For one, if you really are that close as friends, is it then reasonable to say... Not expect each other to keep in contact once gone seperate ways? He believes that friendship can survive without needing any effort and communication. Laughable really. Yeah right. Of course it can. In your own world.
I also have friends who expect too much out of each other. So much that it suffocates the friendship and it withers and dies from too much uh, pressure and expectations.
So how much expectation is ok in a friendship? How much expectation is too much expectation?
... And on a related note, how much thinking is thinking too much?
What do YOU think? *smiles*
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